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[irresolutely]

A marriage based on strong friendship certainly isn't a bad option at all but if her brother disapproved of Jiang Cheng as a potential husband for his little sister, he'd definitely disapprove of Wei Wuxian. Not that Nie Huaisang isn't above taking matters into her own hands by getting herself pregnant by the husband she wishes for herself to force Nie Mingjue's compliance.

She might be a woman but she's as much a Nie as the rest of them. Power and forcefulness is their way. Still, her voice and overall demeanor remains outwardly soft and nervous.

"Neither can I but... Well, I might be worrying and overthinking things too much."

She's prone to doing that, cooped up indoors as often as she tends to be. And even if she suspects her brother might have a little difficulty adjusting to the reality of her being gone and part of a household that isn't his after marriage, the path is inevitable. The Qinghe Nie with its patriarchal traditions will not accept a female sect leader, especially one as weak at cultivation as she.

[beforetheyeet]

"I mean, the other options would be Lan Wangji or Lan Xichen, right? And we both know that'd never work for you." He takes another drink from his jar, leaning back against the wall.

"....Why do you think he'd object to Jiang Cheng, anyway? I mean he's not a Lan, obviously but I can't see either of them with you. Maybe the peacock if he wasn't already engaged to Shijie..."

[irresolutely]

"Lan Wangji would be a total disaster for both of us. Xichen-ge is nice and I'm sure many young women would be utterly delighted to have him as a prospect but... He's too nice, too gentle. I don't feel any passion with him."

And passion is important to her. She gets bored so easily without continuous stimuli.She and Jiang Cheng bicker enough to maintain some level of excitement in the relationship and are similar enough in other ways that it might actually work well for both of them long-term. He really is the best option for Nie Huaisang that she can see.

But...

"Well, it's nothing personal against Jiang Cheng or anyone. It has more to do with my brother and me. He was so young when he succeeded our father, he needed help and support. I did as much for him as I could and I think he's grown to depend on me a little too much in the absence of a wife or another lady of the house. A lot fell to me. I'm not sure he's ready to face life without me."

[beforetheyeet]

"I mean, maybe we find someone to fill in for you?" He offers after a moment, considering the idea. "And I agree on the rest. You should come to Lotus Pier though. I'm sure you've already met Madam Yu and Uncle Jiang but spending time with the family is a bit different." And it would put Jiang Cheng in a very interesting position.

"I can't see them objecting to you at all."

[irresolutely]

That is a relief. Nie Huaisang knows that she doesn't quite fit the image of anyone's perfect wife. Her cultivation is poor and she's not as obedient, virtuous, or docile as some men might prefer. She is considered a great beauty, if a bit too outspoken and ill-mannered on occasion. However, her fierce loyalty and devotion to her brother are known to all and that she took on the role of Lady of the Qinghe Nie at a very young age in the absence of a mother or a sister-in-law has earned her some favor among many.

"Finding a wife for my brother would be ideal if a bit challenging. I've never known him to show interest in anyone but he can't dilly-dally forever. He has a duty to marry and produce heirs, even if it seems he'd rather ignore that aspect of his responsibilities."

As she speaks about her brother's marital situation, there's a clear hint of disapproval in her tone that's seldom apparent when she speaks of him outside her most trusted friends.

[beforetheyeet]

"The thing is, I think he intimidates pretty much everyone. I mean, he's pretty imposing from everything I've heard." Not that he'd officially met Nie Mingjue but the man does have a reputation.

"..If Shijie wasn't promised to the peacock, I might suggest that. She's good at handling...temperamental people."

[irresolutely]

"Yanli-jie would be perfect for handling him but I know she has her eye on someone else. I wouldn't want to interfere with that."

She doesn't share her male friends' dislike of Jin Zixuan either. Sure, he has his flaws but so does everyone and she can understand why he might resent his engagement even if she strongly disagrees with his assessment of Jiang Yanli. Personally, Nie Huaisang would just set her sights on someone else that did appreciate her but she respects her friend's decision.

"I suppose I should think of strategies for improving my brother's marriage prospects. I agree that he's not very approachable as he is now. If he were to get in touch with his softer side and learn how to present that to prospective partners, well, that would solve many problems here."

She loves her brother dearly but honestly, he needs all the help he can get.

[beforetheyeet]

"There has to be someone else suitable to stand up to him when he needs it." He sets the jar down, glances at her.

"I think I can get you an invitation to Lotus Pier once we're all home.I'll talk to Shijie."

[irresolutely]

"If she is willing, I'd be delighted to have her as a sister-in-law. No matter how this turns out."

A life in Lotus Pier with her friends instead of her restrictive existence at home certainly holds great appeal to her. It sounds like such a wonderful place from their stories. Much more suitable to her than cold, rocky, and boring Qinghe.

"I'd love to visit and see it for myself. It sounds so lovely when you talk about it."

She sips from her jar. It's not as strong as some of the liquor in her home but it's still pleasant.

[beforetheyeet]

"That or Jiang Cheng coming to see you at Qinghe with Uncle Jiang." Either one would net results, but she probably wouid enjoy the freedom of Yunmeng.

"We'll make it happen."

[irresolutely]

It's comforting to not have to deal with this alone. To have a solid backup and a friend she can rely on. Wei Wuxian's sweet and will make someone very happy someday. She's sure of it.

"Thank you, Wei-xiong. You're a good friend."

A break from Qinghe would certainly make her happy. She gets so sick of being stuck there sometimes, she actually looks forward to attending boring lectures at the Cloud Recesses.